There are specified rules for cutting the wedding cake that are a part of tradition. For instance, at a wedding reception, it is traditional to cut the wedding cake just before dessert is served, if the wedding reception takes place during lunch or the dinner hour. However, if the reception is held during tea or cocktails, the cake is cut just after all of the guests arrive. It is tradition for the bride and groom to cut and eat the first slice together, as a symbol of their choice to be together. The rest of the cake is sliced by the maid of honor or a family member.
Choosing a wedding cake is quite a task. Tradition calls for a white cake with white frosting for weddings. In this day and age, couples are choosing their favorite flavor. This has bakeries and cake decorators striving to offer a larger selection of cakes. chocolate, pound, fruit are some of the cakes made for modern weddings.
Some wedding cakes offer a different flavor for each layer. White icing, while still ordered, has made way for a wider selection of frostings. Chocolate, mocha, lemon, and any other flavor you can imagine are used for wedding cake decorating. It is possible to customize your cake using all of your favorite flavors. How the wedding cake is decorated is a personal choice as well. You can have just about anything you can dream up put on a wedding cake including, fruit and even real edible flowers.
The wedding reception is the most anticipated part of the wedding. And everyone looks forward to seeing the cake cut and sharing it with the bride and groom as a symbol of good will and a hope, that as a couple, the bride and groom will be prosperous and fertile.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Labels: Bridal Lingerie, Engagement gifts, Gifts, Ideas, Links, Marraige, Plan, Relatives, Romantic, Sexy, Shopping, Wedding, Wedding Favors 0 commentsA wedding is a special event, not just for the bride and groom, but also for the people attending the wedding. An invitation to a wedding can be a symbol that the bride and groom consider you to be close friends of the family. There are important rules of etiquette that apply to the wedding, from ways to respond to the invitation to guidelines for purchasing wedding gifts.
Although the emphasis on the wedding is the love and commitment the new couple shows, it is important to follow wedding gift guidelines so that you are not perceived as being rude.
One of the key things with wedding gift guidelines is to know when it is appropriate to give a gift and when it is not. If you receive an invitation to the wedding, you should absolutely purchase a gift if you attend. Often it is also a good idea to send a gift even if you cannot attend the wedding. The only situation where it is polite to not send a gift is if you have been out of touch with the couple for several years.
There are events related to the wedding that have gift guidelines as well. For instance, if you receive an announcement of the wedding after the fact, you should not feel obligated to send a gift. A congratulatory card will suffice in this case.
If you are invited to the engagement party, you should not feel obligated to bring a gift then, since there will be a time at the wedding for giving gifts. However, if you are invited to the wedding shower, it is polite to bring a gift. However, in this case if you do not attend, you do not have to purchase a gift.